**At least, that's my current theory. If anyone who's observed me in groups has any other better theories as to why, other than being loud and obnoxious, I garner attention, let me know.**
Here is my observation, for what it is worth. Everyone likes attention, likes to think that they are interesting. When you focus your attention on people, it's like a frikkin beam of light, made of whatever it is that people like beams of light to be made of. You focus your attention so well, like a frikkin laser, it can leave someone with the impression that they are the coolest person at that particular moment.
I have felt that effect myself. I have also hung around with you enough to see that effect on others as well. I find it to be an interesting phenomenon.
I'm not sure if that helps you understand it better, but that is what I have observed.
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Here is my observation, for what it is worth. Everyone likes attention, likes to think that they are interesting. When you focus your attention on people, it's like a frikkin beam of light, made of whatever it is that people like beams of light to be made of. You focus your attention so well, like a frikkin laser, it can leave someone with the impression that they are the coolest person at that particular moment.
I have felt that effect myself. I have also hung around with you enough to see that effect on others as well. I find it to be an interesting phenomenon.
I'm not sure if that helps you understand it better, but that is what I have observed.