Ten day meme, part seven: turn-offs

[hazliya]

Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn-offs.
Day Eight: Three turn-ons.
Day Nine: Two images that describe your life right now, and why.
Day Ten: One confession

1. Entitlement. I absolutely can't stand people with any sense of being entitled to anything in this life.

2. The Sad Girl in the Corner. I see this a lot at parties, where one girl (and, occasionally, boy) is theatrically antisocial in a bid for attention. And I hate it because, while I refuse to reinforce that behavior with a concerned "Omg, what's wrong? It's okay, your social problems totally make you special and fit in here," other people are more than happy to oblige her. I hate that. Hate that. People come rushing over to the Sad Girl just like she wants, and she cycles through them tearfully as they feed her need for constant attention. I want to slap this girl. Hard. I mean, there was once where said girl was my Type with a capital T, down to her hairstyle and piercings, and I still wouldn't touch her with a ten-foot-pole. (This, if you couldn't tell, is another one of my soapboxes.)

3. People who don't speak up. I chatter endlessly about absolutely nothing, if left unchecked. I ramble. And segue. I'll do anything to keep conversation going, just about. So don't just sit there and pretend to be interested as I make an ass of myself in an attempt to find something you're interested in. Be assertive about it, and I'm seriously yours. And I'll learn what you're into. Otherwise, I walk away feeling like an idiot and you walk away thinking I'm an idiot. Who wins there?

4. Muffin tops. Men or women - if it doesn't fit, don't wear it.

Comments

[redfishie.livejournal.com]

I am so with you on the first 2. Both drive me nuts, an will likely make my own list in some form.

[http://users.livejournal.com/_dragonwolf_/]

I AGREE WITH ALL THESE THINGS. SO MUCH.

[alankria.livejournal.com]

Wow, where are these bizarre parties where people actually approach the antisocial person/people? I don't hang out in the corner as a bid for attention, though, but because I'm genuinely bored; I'll leave a little while later and do something more interesting, like read a book. But the idea of people actually noticing someone who is mind-numbingly bored is kind of weird.

[offside7.livejournal.com]

Totally with you on the Sad Girl in the Corner, except I would call it "Sad Person in the Corner." I think I've personally seen it more with guys.

[acousticshadow2.livejournal.com]

I also despise the pity me complex, and I actively avoid the company of people who portray it, but there is a level of social ill comfort that can be genuine.

For example, I suffer from social anxiety in large groups of people I am not acquainted with. I do well in small groups but am very uncomfortable in the company of a lot of people I don’t know. I do not leave my anxieties as an excuse not to socialize. I will often sit on the sidelines for an hour or so getting comfortable with my surroundings before I will branch out. Once I do, I’m a social butterfly. There is a fine line between social anxiety and passive aggressive “demand for attention” But demand for attention is easy to tell within the first 5 minutes of conversation.

Also, I find the white knight complex annoying. I don’t need to be rescued thank you very much. This princess isn’t in the castle because I’ve already fought my way out! I get really annoyed at people who when I vent because I have a problem try to white knight fix everything for me.

[hntrpyanfar.livejournal.com]

1. Wow, all the way, #1. OOfdah.

3. I like to listen, but I'm not afraid to interrupt with questions. I'll try to remember to speak up more. :)

4. I still want to yell 'who dressed you!?!' at some of the middle schoolers I'd see in my neighborhood. I've been guilty of muffining myself, but when I realize it I make changes, damnit. ;)

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