Sigh.

[hazliya]

Talked with Adam.

He was upset when I told him how miffed I was, mostly because he felt like he was just doing a good thing. But I pointed out how it's a bad thing to go ahead and volunteer us and the apartment for something I had no say in. He also said that he called me once and I didn't pick up, so he assumed that I was asleep and went ahead and said yes. The phone was charging and I didn't hear it.

Anyway, I told him that I'd prefer it if he played it safe from now on. If he doesn't know my feelings on the subject, I'd like his default answer to be "No, I have to OK it with someone else first. I'll get back to you."

Or something like that.

Then, to apologize for making such a big fuss, I made him a big dinner while he was gaming, and it was ready just in time when he got back. Comfort food, mostly. Cheesy garlic mashed potatoes, sweet buttery corn, and breaded and fried popcorn shrimp with lemon juice to dip it in. We ate while watching "Rage of the Masters," a really bad kung fu movie I picked up at the dollar store for shits and giggles. The best part of it was the dubbing, I must say. And the ninja old lady. But other than that, stereotypical kung fu flick.

I don't know, was I out of line on the whole "random person spending a week" thing? I keep feeling bad about being upset.

-Haz

Comments

[yearbook50.livejournal.com]

You were not out of line...
I personally would be pissed if Shaun did that to me. I can handle a random person for one night...but a whole week without consent is ridiculus.

[jalawingedone.livejournal.com]

No, I think you were completely within bounds to be upset. He's not the only person whose space and hospitality should be counted on.

[mariaklob.livejournal.com]

I don't think you were out of line. Finding out that a stranger is showing up to your already hectic apartment and staying a week is good cause for getting upset.

[relique.livejournal.com]

i don't know what you SAID when you reacted, so i don't really know if you were overall out of line........ but being upset is NOT out of line.

[dark-towhead.livejournal.com]

Have to agree with relique. Dunno how you said it (that might have been out of line), but I try to okay having y'all come over for a single night (with both Kat and Trista), much less a whole week!

-- Dan

[ainamyppah.livejournal.com]

Naw you weren't outta line. Both of you guys live there so one person can't just go around making decisions for the whole team. Fuck that. both of you guys need to think about how your actions are going to affect each other and not just your one lone self.